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New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Emotionally immature people can wreck your life. One of our most popular guests returns to teach you how to make sure they don't. Description:  Our relationships are the most important variable in our health and happiness, but they may also be the most difficult. This is especially true when those closest to us turn out to be emotionally immature people. Lindsay C. Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her first appearance on our show was one of our most popular episodes of 2022. Now she's back to offer concrete strategies for handling the EIP's in your life, wherever you may find them. Her new book is called Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People. In this episode we talk about: A primer on the cardinal characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIP's), how to spot them, and why you might want to What Lindsay means by "disentangling" from EIP's, and how to do it What often happens to your own sense of self when you're in relationship (or even just in conversation) with an EIP  How to interact with an EIP  How to prevent brain scramble when you're talking with someone who isn't making any attempt to understand what you're saying   How she reacts when she comes across EIP's in her everyday life Whether it's possible to have some immature characteristics without being an EIP Handling your own emotionally immature tendencies   Whether or not EIP's can change The limits of estrangement Why she encourages "alternatives to forgiveness" Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-791 Book Mentioned: Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People Other Resources Mentioned: Lindsay's first appearance on the Ten Percent Happier Podcast Additional Resources: Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/install

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Today's guest, Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people— whether they are your parents, boss, spouse or childhood friend, she offers practical tools to help navigate these difficult relationships.    Description:  Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.   Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents.    In this episode we talk about: The signs of emotional immaturity Whether or not I'm emotionally immature What happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategies Why adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them go How to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adult What role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP's How to heal   Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-2022-rerun   Books Mentioned: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's Purpose Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self, and Live with Confidence Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents    Other Resources Mentioned: Lisa Feldman Barrett   Help Dan out and take our audience survey — we'll thank you with 10% off all merch at shop.danharris.com! The survey is available at tinyurl.com/tphpod.   Additional Resources: Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/install  

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- A self-described "silly man" tells us about what's really important in life.  Ted Danson has an acting career spanning over four decades. He rose to prominence in the 1980s with his iconic portrayal of Sam Malone in the long-running sitcom "Cheers," earning him critical acclaim and multiple awards. Danson's charisma and acting prowess have since led him to a myriad of diverse roles, including his Emmy-nominated performances in "Damages" and "Fargo." Most recently, he starred in the existential comedy "The Good Place." Beyond his acting career, Danson is also celebrated for his environmental activism and philanthropy, demonstrating a commitment to making a positive impact beyond the screen. His next venture? A podcast with his old "Cheers" buddy, Woody Harrelson. In this episode we talk about: meditation marriage hypochondria grief what he means when he calls himself a joy junkie what he learned from being on the TV show "The Good Place" and that time he did shrooms with his fellow cast members on "Cheers" Sign up for Dan's weekly newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Ten Percent Happier online bookstore Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Our favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular Episodes Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/ted-danson Additional Resources: Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/install